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CHABAD.ORG MAGAZINE: Shining Soul of Failure, Proactive Parenting (and more...)

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Adar I 11, 5771 * February 15, 2011

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Editor's Note:

Chassidic philosophy explains the concept of a "descent for the sake of an ascent." Basically, this alludes to how our mistakes and failures are often an integral part of what helps us reach our goals. Just like a flat line on an EKG means death, there is no such thing as a life with no bumps. It is specifically the ups and downs in life that provide the lessons we need to grow, and make us who we are.

In this week's Torah portion we read of the sin of the Golden Calf-a pretty big mess-up as far as mistakes go-especially considering that this was a mere forty days after the Jewish people witnessed the greatest revelation at Mount Sinai. Yet it would be through this mistake that the Jewish people would complete their Sinai experience, by learning the integral lesson of how to turn their failure into growth.

Enjoy our selections this week, and may we all come to see how through our descents we are able to reach even greater ascents, as we find the lessons in our successes as well as in our challenges.

Sara Esther Crispe,

on behalf of the www.chabad.org Editorial Team
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THIS WEEK'S FEATURES:

ON FAILINGS AND FORGIVENESS

Parshah: Shining Soul of Failure (By Mendy Herson)

In order to complete the lesson of Sinai, the Jews needed to experience the beauty that comes from turning failure into growth . . .

>> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=C34AAEA69A28B7A9CDC5DA33CFB45AF6&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


Parshah: The Lost Cause Scenario (By Yanki Tauber)

Much is made of Abraham's valiant efforts to save the city of Sodom, but something about the story just doesn't add up . . .

>> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=98489BA199B95100E214130397B04C90&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


Parshah: Making Decisions (By Rochel Holzkenner)

If you have not made any strong moral decisions, you lose out on the opportunity to be accountable for your choices.

>> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=8BFC5742EA88FAFAB4065936547A2B9F&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


Parshah: True Mercy (By Shlomo Yaffe)

Why is "an abundance of truth" considered one of the attributes of mercy?

>> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=B681D93351627A22EFB799536FF324A8&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


Parshah: Proactive Parenting (By Chana Weisberg)


Is there any benefit in compelling your child to do what is right, when he's doing so only because he cannot disobey you?

>> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=690AA041884E5C166E7F55AA119535C4&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


Video: "Image Not Available" (Dovid Taub & Jonathan Goorvich)


Gefilte Fish gives an in-depth analysis of the Golden Calf, and explains the importance of not worshipping idols.

WATCH (4:15) >> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=A79C2E1F750F1FD85DEE3B4B856F152E&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


Story: The Precious Coin (By Yerachmiel Tilles)

A holy half-shekel reveals the importance of judging one's fellow favorably.

>> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=C0F3B0511AEE5AC753C80BF3AB0E20D5&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


ON LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS

Video: Liking the People You Love (By Manis Friedman)


Understanding the difference between "living" and "existing" helps us understand why it's sometimes so hard to like the people you love.

WATCH (48:42) >> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=FD1E7132EC00F256B63F318333D4BB5A&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


Judaism: Finding Your Soulmate

All you need to know about the quest for a soulmate. The Jewish perspective on the selection process, dating, and the need to marry in the first place!

>> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=621E26990EE7A684044122947FB60962&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


Dear Rachel: Looking For Mr. Perfect (Answered by Sara Esther Crispe)

How do I know when I have found "the one"? I'm scared that while I wait for Mr. Perfect, I am letting go of Mr. Almost Perfect . . .

>> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=006E8269BFCE90A78FA0D128F24AAEB3&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


Story: The Shalom Bayit Kugel (By Shoshannah Brombacher)

"My wife," complained the man, "every week she makes for Shabbat a delicious kugel. All week I work and shlep, just for that kugel!"

>> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=3473F4AC9B4FEDA55FC8E4DDA92DA895&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


Voices: Surviving My Mother's Illness (By Beryl Tritel)

Here I was, experiencing all of my new baby's "firsts," while at the same time experiencing the same things with my mother, only they were her lasts . . .

>> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=063C261CA80D270485CD2FEC90B1457D&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


Voices: Bouncing Through Childhood (By Sarah Silverfield)

Childhood can be a time of great struggle, but also of great joy. The fabric of our children's lives is being woven minute by minute.

>> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=13190A562DDCDB620CE162A89BA25552&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


ON BEING A JEW

Video: Are You a Good Jew? (By Dov Greenberg)

What does it mean to be "a good Jew"? It all depends on which direction you're heading.

WATCH (4:31) >> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=246A3C46DB33CC7F166100FF86446BE4&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


Question: Can Judaism Be Fun? (By Tzvi Freeman)

Some say G-d created the world so we could party. It's only half true. He created it so He could party with us . . .

>> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=153F21FA66449FDA0FE878A3D3449E2D&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


Story: The Righteous Generation (By Zalman Velvel)

Inside his brain was a primitive compartment that could not be tricked or turned off, and it continued to think about it, imagining the cemetery and the gravestone, with his family standing around it . . .

>> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=6E7F3B774CE0FA273DC8E360C04F0499&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


Voices: Shards of Innocence (By Rhona Lewis)
Dealing with Anti-Semitism

I was ten before I found out that people don't like Jews. Unreal, strange, impossible. And true: my childhood in Kenya was sheltered.

>> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=DD0934E5B93B7F950623518F25A19976&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


Video: The Talmud

What is Talmud? When was it compiled and why? How does it differ from Mishnah?

WATCH (3:00) >> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=37978F9443FD6421BAE11A4C10141AC3&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


SPIRITUAL GROWTH

Prayer: Making Sense of It All (By Tzvi Freeman)


What does metafiction and vicarious experience have to do with prayer?

>> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=9D90C555C29E92E77E42434770A8454F&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


Lexicon of Jewish Thought: B'riah


The immediate implication of true creation is that nothing "must be."

>> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=1C277CEF4F99A68D54DFA75787CAC429&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


Joy: Medicine As Sweet As Honey (Translated by Tzvi Freeman)

The Baal Shem Tov taught that in every word you speak, you should intend to subdue, distinguish and sweeten.

>> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=5DCD9B704B4DEA5616818C918AA3DCB3&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


Q & A

What Does "Manna" Mean? (By Menachem Posner)

"When the children of Israel saw it, they said to one another, 'It is manna,' because they did not know what it was." But what does "manna" mean?

>> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=F150BD37AFDC6936A82FC3C93A5F1FC8&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


Was Aaron responsible for the Golden Calf? (By Baruch S. Davidson)


I am thoroughly annoyed with rabbinic interpretations. There seems to be total whitewashing of the stories, just to make the heroes look sinless.

>> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=06113560B6E86C6CA7A962D3524E7766&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


JUST DO IT

Shabbat Preparations II


How to prepare yourself for Shabbat, and how to have all the food prepared in advance in honor of the holy day of rest.

>> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=915771EA4CC75E19522F006EBBDFF899&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2


Morning Handwashing (By Mendel Kaplan)


The priests would wash their hands in the laver ("kiyor") each morning before working in the Temple. What are the laws of the morning handwashing ritual?

Airs Feb. 15 >> http://link.Chabad.org/go.asp?li=8B89218174D853A451654651F428E242&ui=F8C16ABBBCDB72AD0024EE2F647D78D2

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